tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post2054243306818186868..comments2023-09-26T04:56:13.105-07:00Comments on Guilty With An Explanation: I'm Sikh of Your Silent Treatmentheartinsanfranciscohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07535397382991383931noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-2628403252971112282011-08-26T09:14:44.832-07:002011-08-26T09:14:44.832-07:00There is light in your soul that Paris could only ...There is light in your soul that Paris could only dream of. <br /><br />:)<br /><br />Lots of love to you sweet lady. <br /><br />XOXOXO<br /><br />ScarlettWanderlust Scarletthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00551514192060606454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-47351136354302180622011-08-25T19:01:14.247-07:002011-08-25T19:01:14.247-07:00Babe,
Keep 'em coming,please. I run on hugs.
...Babe,<br /><br />Keep 'em coming,please. I run on hugs.<br /><br />David,<br /><br />It's a pic from Google Images, but facially resembles my toll booth man, whom I haven't seen since I wrote this. He's gone. I hope it wasn't something I said. :)heartinsanfranciscohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07535397382991383931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-51560499663122681192011-08-25T06:38:57.807-07:002011-08-25T06:38:57.807-07:00I like the image atop this post. I like the colors...I like the image atop this post. I like the colors - his skin, his facial hair, his clothes. Much like your words below it - all the layers and verve of life. Good, bad, complex, simple. <br /><br />You had kind thoughts but I wonder how many people use the quick, drive-through of a tollbooth to hurl insults his way for his differences. Maybe that is the reason for his silence or his reluctance. Maybe. I like the idea that a flower could break through.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-49701334357464200842011-08-24T07:26:11.867-07:002011-08-24T07:26:11.867-07:00Or an olive branch?
Your daily life is exhaustin...Or an olive branch? <br /><br />Your daily life is exhausting. When I think my life is hard I just look at yours. I was feeling sorry for myself today and then I read this post. I hurt for you and for Flip. So much is unfair. I can only keep sending you hugs.CiCihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08615265608675467505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-67697989236205558202011-08-23T20:36:39.343-07:002011-08-23T20:36:39.343-07:00Gifts,
I know this will sound corny, but the kind...Gifts,<br /><br />I know this will sound corny, but the kind and supportive comments I get here are like a bouquet of flowers. <br /><br />Jackie,<br /><br />My email address is on my profile page here and also on Facebook.<br /><br />Mark,<br /><br />Ohhh, I love it when you talk poetry to me.<br /><br />Molly,<br /><br />I guess that place was not meant to be. I do believe that we will be guided to the right situation for our needs.<br /><br />Denise,<br /><br />I am sure the tollbooth man doesn't recognize me from day to day when he sees hundreds of people. It's far easier for me to remember him since his context doesn't change. <br /><br />Thank you for your visit!<br /><br />Nick,<br /><br />For all I know, offering him a flower could be a courting ritual in his culture, so I don't think I'll do that. Maybe I should wash my car, though.<br /><br />Jo,<br /><br />I think there is a lot of wisdom in the One Day at a Time philosophy. <br /><br />Today, my turbaned toll taker was not there, but a very cute young man in dreadlocks was. He spoke to me and seemed solicitous as he handed me my change, making sure I had it before he let go. I call this progress.<br /><br />Gina,<br /><br />Another new face! I'm so glad you're here, and thank you for your very kind comment.<br /><br />Agent,<br /><br />You don't think it's like throwing panties at rock stars? It's not like I'm after the guy - I just have a fascination with other cultures and frankly, I'm not used to my friendliness not being reciprocated. It's humbling, but kind of amusing, too.<br /><br />Lisa,<br /><br />He looks as if he knows things. And the new toll guy does, too, but I suspect they're different things. Maybe someday when I've accepted that the old man in the turban will never speak to me, he'll say something earthshaking. I am not patient- I'm an instant gratification type American, but hey,nobody's perfect.heartinsanfranciscohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07535397382991383931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-10585358908320464022011-08-23T18:58:39.460-07:002011-08-23T18:58:39.460-07:00I hope your new cat-friend is a comfort and good c...I hope your new cat-friend is a comfort and good companion. I also hope your toll booth friend warms up enough to say hello in time. Maybe he just needs to see your lovely smile a few more times before he gets brave enough to talk to you. Or maybe that's why he doesn't talk, because he is intimidated by pretty ladies. *hugs* xxmischiefhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12837189368963587932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-3224918424420666462011-08-23T17:22:38.774-07:002011-08-23T17:22:38.774-07:00I'm disappointed about the place in Marin - it...I'm disappointed about the place in Marin - it sounded very promising.<br /><br />I really like the idea of you handing the toll booth guy a lotus blossom or any flower at all. What a connection.secret agent womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763879283931347382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-60489268992723161912011-08-23T15:08:30.341-07:002011-08-23T15:08:30.341-07:00I think it is amazing with all you are going throu...I think it is amazing with all you are going through in your own life that you have the energy to think about other people. You are a woman to be admired.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16904240359698373279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-63365252310762437582011-08-23T13:20:10.909-07:002011-08-23T13:20:10.909-07:00I would suspect the Sikh man is "helloed"...I would suspect the Sikh man is "helloed" out. I suspect one of these days you will get a smile, and then a few weeks later you will get a "hello".<br /><br />You have so much going on in your life right now, I don't know how you manage it. I'm hope the kitty will give you a teeny bit of comfort, at least.Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03382221688268676914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-9789201979046571312011-08-23T11:43:56.271-07:002011-08-23T11:43:56.271-07:00Oh dear, the search for a suitable resting-place c...Oh dear, the search for a suitable resting-place continues. I hope you find somewhere suitable soon.<br /><br />I doubt if the toll-man's reticence is anything personal. I suspect as you say the prospect of speaking to so many hundreds of drivers is daunting. To meet a nice man with kind eyes is quite enough in this harsh world. Yes, I wonder how he would react to a flower....nickhttp://nickhereandnow.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-45272145364330243322011-08-23T10:24:33.180-07:002011-08-23T10:24:33.180-07:00These repeated superficial encounters are a chance...These repeated superficial encounters are a chance for something less superficial. But how to do that? We expect the superficial, I think, in circumstances like the tollbooth, but it seems odd that the encounter should remain so when the contact is repeated over and over again.Denise Emanuel Clemenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10982725113569943337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-41824134551055678312011-08-23T07:02:53.964-07:002011-08-23T07:02:53.964-07:00At least he makes eye contact with you. People who...At least he makes eye contact with you. People who can't look you in the eye, no matter how different you are, are missing the fact that we're all muddling through the best way we can, and are much more like each other than differentSo frustrating that the Marin place fell through. I hope they had some helpful suggestions for another place? Otherwise they should take him and just deal with his "athleticism." Hugs from here....mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-41680644329738041892011-08-23T06:24:08.817-07:002011-08-23T06:24:08.817-07:00You are the lotus throne upon which all goodness s...You are the lotus throne upon which all goodness sits Susan.the walking manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10058913927297370740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-67911612780745206402011-08-22T23:44:49.116-07:002011-08-22T23:44:49.116-07:00Susan, I lost most of my email addresses when I ch...Susan, I lost most of my email addresses when I changed computers last year. I sent you a message through Facebook with the info I prommised.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03354299078292553141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29674249.post-30868959400751821032011-08-22T23:38:11.681-07:002011-08-22T23:38:11.681-07:00I love your idea of offering him a flower along wi...I love your idea of offering him a flower along with your toll. You sound as if you could use a few smiles and a full bouquet of flowers yourself. Maybe some merry sunflowers. <br /><br />I can't imagine the heartache of being where you are with Flip and the lack of options for his care. I wish I could do more than say how sorry I am from a distance.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com